In the meantime, this being 2008, I was still trying to finish the house which I have sent you pictures of. I told Shaoying that I would come back and marry her if she liked and if that would satisfy the VISA requirements but when the economy collapsed I was unable to go back and in late 2009 Shaoying decided she had waited long enough and she broke it off with me. ( she tell me to take a long walk off a short dock!). To be sure I was heart broken but I had done everything I could possibly do yet I don't blame Shaoying for moving on.
But I don't give up. It is now almost 2011. My house is complete, my Son has grown up, my Abagail is near grown up and I am free to find my true love and so I find you and I am very happy to find you but I hope you understand the difficulties of immigrating to the USA because I don't think my heart can stand to be broken AGAIN!! haha.....So please don't break my heart againsweetheart and stand by me and I will stand by you .... Forevermore, 'til the sun don't shine and the rivers don't run ....
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'Love your Jeff
