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I'm not sure where parents these days got the idea that childhood should be as cooshy and comfortable as possible. I think sometimes it's an overcorrection in reaction to so many terrible cases of child abuse coming to light. A bit of inconvenience and discomfort can be a very effective teacher, however, and is in no way abusive if you use common sense. Let your child experience the consequences of his actions whenever you can. Do not spare your child every sadness or try to make things too easy. Watch carefully for these teachable moments -- most of the time you won't even have to lift a finger for it to work. Just reinforce verbally: "I asked you to get your toy several times and you didn't, so now it's at Grandma's until next time."是一篇讲给幼儿订规矩的文章
