我是个粗心大意的人,记性不好可忘性特大,我天天学做家务可老公还说我不是闲妻良母的那种女人
做个好女人首先心中充满——爱。爱自己，珍惜自己，这样才能更好地爱别人；爱老人，无论自己的父母和先生的父母，更有街边老妪老翁，因为“老吾老以及人之老，幼吾幼以及人之幼。”这一古训做人只准则。毕竟我们有一天会老，榜样从我做起。
提问者对答案的评价：
贤凄良母的具体标准有谁知道吗？只要用心就是好样的，在这儿我代你老公表扬你了。
只要用心,用爱就好了
don\'t force yourself too much to satisfy him, tell him what you are good to and do what you like, and try to earn enough money to hire someone do the housework for you.you are good woman. Who say you are not? just write down everything you have to do in a notebook.but first you should let him know that you do not accept the definition of \'good housewife" by your husband. because you can also say that he is not a good husband because of this kind of opinion to his wife.be yourself is life, don\'t live for others. if your husband really loves you, he should force you to do things. both you would change if you could be natural in your normal life.
作到问心无愧就行了，不必为了某个人的欢欣与满足而活着，这样活着太累，而且，你们不妨多沟通一些，夫妻间互相体谅互相理解最重要了。
你能意识到自己的缺点,并真的想做好,你已经是个贤妻良母了----可惜,我怎么没有这样一个好妻子呢?
一切慢慢来,好女人的定义太广泛了,不要逼自己做好女人,没有一个女人一开始就是会做家务的,经验都是靠时间积累的.奉劝你老公一句话:在你做事后不要老是批评多于表扬,这样的你会对做家务失去信心,应该适当的鼓励一下,这样女人才会对做家务有兴趣 |
