这是我在另一个论坛上看到的
对Sarah19821012在美国论坛的回应 (2千字)(silence 1-6 5:38 阅读 219)
[无标题] (1千字)(silence 1-6 6:49 阅读 27)
这里很安静,真好,注册名silence,就是想让自己的心沉静下来。
昨天老公突然说,换个IP很容易,我可以让你的IP地址显示为芝加哥,中国,我说不用,很奇怪他居然知道我有这方面的麻烦。他是一个很聪明的男人,肯定看出来我这几天又是打电话哭,又是问他IP的问题可能察觉了什莫,所以有帮我的意愿,我很感激他没有问我什莫原因。因为不想把网上的硝烟带到生活中。
昨天给晓晓打电话,她把我痛骂了一顿,我反而感觉很舒服,因为我觉得她骂得对。在理,所以我愿意听,也能接受。
我做了错事,就要勇于承担责任,就要受到相应的惩罚,所以即使我可以越狱,可以换个IP,但我宁可接受封IP的决定,但我会然后继续战斗,直到真相大白!
已经无数次向sarah赔礼道歉,无数次删ID,告别离开论坛,很不明白,为什莫我还是不能得到安静。为什莫还是有人要赶尽杀绝,喋喋不休。
我从来接触的人素质都很高,没有机会认识什麽坏朋友,也不可能跟别人泼妇骂街。
当论坛有人破口大骂,我只有有两种想法,觉得她很可怜,生活的不愉快。感觉走,免得纠缠不清。
这也是我一再容忍,不想去发生正面冲突的原因。谦忍不是懦弱,是一种美德,是宽容,是原谅,我一直原谅不明真相或者恶意捣乱的小人的恶言相向,因为,我不想卷入是非。
但是非一直围绕着我,因为大家对我的生活有份好奇,但我不能透露太多,不希望自己有福气,但没命享。所以有关问题我也往往点到为止,不想透露太多。对自己没啥好处,对家庭更没有好处,这是晓晓教导我的,我会牢牢记住。我会像晓晓学习,用一颗谦卑的心,以后发言前先考虑别人的感受,把这里当成公共场合,不是自己的家里。
[无标题] (257字)(silence 1-6 6:56 阅读 10)
在这里看到wild-swan因为我受委屈,觉得很难过,在这里说一声妹妹对不起。为不相干的人生气,不值得,为了在人格上思想觉悟上教育水平上家庭条件上生活水平上远远不如自己的人生气,更不值得,为了不了解自己的人生闷气,那就更加要不得。让我们开开心心,快快乐乐过好每一天!
[无标题] (377字)(easygoing 1-6 7:59 阅读 11)
你在这里选用silence作为自己的ID,我想这也是你对自己的一种心理暗示。也期待你在现实中学会快快的听,慢慢的说。有时无声或保持沉默其实比处处为自己申冤或辩解的效果更好,更容易赢得理解或同情。人的好气质,不能仅凭外表或衣着来判定,言谈和文字表达也占有相当大的比例。切记,言多必失,话少并非吃亏。如果你对以前的老话题不再紧追不舍,而摆出高姿态,来这里换个话题发言,我想一定会更受欢迎的!
[无标题] (128字)(silence 1-6 8:38 阅读 7)
Yes. U r right.
The good person never win when he fight with bad person.
I want to keep silence and enjoy my quiet happiness.
同意easygoing. 语言和气度也能表现出一个人的品味。 (空)(margaret 1-6 8:39 阅读 10)
[无标题] (162字)(silence 1-6 8:46 阅读 9)
Yes. My taste is not so good now. But I will slow down and get it slowly slowly. Here is peacful and beaufiful,make people thinking, how to be a wonderful person.
No one could be perfect, just be friendly to people around you, (29字)(margaret 1-6 9:07 阅读 11)
you will be more appreciated.
I don't want to make you misunderstanding, silence. (42字)(margaret 1-6 9:10 阅读 9)
what I am talking about is a general rule.
[无标题] (350字)(silence 1-6 9:13 阅读 10)
I like make fun of people, now I understand it is rude and not polite to the people who is not know you for many years. Also I learn the people no like to hear you tell them what they did are wrong. I should not push the people accept me completely and stop trying to change people.and no more guess... Let it be...so far. I got these. Tell me more.
Making fun of people is not wrong. But if some people do not like, (177字)(margaret 1-6 9:22 阅读 11)
don't do this.For example, you may get: may I help you?
even you want to help people, you have to ask for a permission.
learning is easy, be sure everything right is not easy.
[无标题] (419字)(silence 1-6 9:35 阅读 12)
Yes yes, many times I feel trouble to judge right or wrong. And forget to ask may I help you. I should learn to respect people and think about how they feel and talk to the people in the way they can accept. Many times I'm overworried my friends and bring trouble to them. They feel very good and very happy but I always think they are in bad condition and tell them to do this or that....that makes people dislike me.
You are smart girl! (61字)(margaret 1-6 9:40 阅读 12)
Everybody will be appreciated if she/he is nice to Jms here.
silence, thank you for chatting with me. (155字)(margaret 1-6 9:53 阅读 8)
and I do appreciate Sarah19821012 sharing her time with us.
No one could be perfect, we learn from each other, and we make friends. We don't make trouble.
[无标题] (510字)(silence 1-6 10:18 阅读 8)
Sarah19821012 do the thing she think it is right. I understand.i' m older than her. I know what she is doing and respect what she did.
I do the thing I think is right. I worry about the girls situation in bbs even they hate me and nobody understand me. I state out All the questions bothered me all the time and hope to find out the truth.I'm happy if she can prove she is a good girl.
I don't need to prove myself and get any attention. I got enough attention in my life. I only want to clarify everything.
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