those who can lose shall gain, those who wish gain shall lose. 输得起,才能赢;只想赢,就会输。 (2)other people's harvest are always the best harvest but one's own children are the best children 别人的成就/收获怎么看都比自己的好,而自己的孩子怎么看都比别人的孩子好。(3)Belief, then , is the great guide of human life.信仰是人生最伟大的向导。