It is sometimes said that borrowing money from a friend can harm or damage the friendship ,do you agree or disagree.
in the modern times, people usually have toface the dilemma to choose whether we should borrow money from our friends or just cover the problem by ourselves, it's a controversial problem that confused numerous people at times. We would all know, we can't live without friends. Why? answer is clear that even a kid will understand how to define a word "friend".a friend is the guy who wecan not only share the pleasure, butalso go through difficulties together. as my opinion, i totally disagree with the opinion that borrowing money would be harmful for the relationship between s/he and me, on the contrary, the opposite of this is my point of view. Here I would explain a few of the most important reasons. But before rendering my opinion, I think it is necessary to take a glance at the arguments of both sides.
first and foremost, like the proverb said "a friend in need is a friend indeed" ,the ones who are not willing to help their friends out of a bad situation, are definitely notreal friends . let's assume, you are a friend of mine ,and now you are in big trouble and need some money to cover this off, how can i say no to you? I insist on the point of view friends should be considerate and taking care of each other. I will not just ignore your situation and leave you alone.i will absolutely lend you money I have, without hesitation, even though you won't return money back to me in short time. Everybody have to do this, considering your situationmayjust like s/he someday.help your friends is helping yourself.
admittedly, ican notimagine what the hell my life will be without money. money can do a lot of thing, buying food, car, house etc! but still money have its limitation that it can not represent emotion.i can give you a example that will make it easy to understand. I want to state rich don't means happy.
friends can do what money can not do.that's why i cherish my friendship, i don't care about money.to be perfectly frank,i will appreciate to get more friends than money.i remenbered one thing that seemed so fresh to me even now.paul, a friend of mine ,who is born in rich and never bent down his head when takling with someone ,seemingly he is superior to others. we both hate him.after a while ,he is in trouble and just keeping his mouth closed because he knew he got no friends.guess what,at the end,he was arrested by police for stealing goods from storage. i m upset about it .that bad thing can be avoided if he told us.
if all things above all are considerated, it's not difficult to find that the point of the view is so partial and obviously have a limitation, From what I have deliberated above, we may easily come to the conclusion that choosingis that caring money too much but not your friends should not be a wise decision.
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